Love for the Poor
Dilexi te and the Catholic school: inclusion, disadvantage and the barriers faced by children and families.
Listen to Sarah Explore the questions Read the apostolic exhortation ↗The question for governors: How does this teaching enable us to challenge and support our Catholic school more effectively? Pope Leo XIV invites us to consider whether children and families who face the greatest barriers are seen, heard and able to participate fully in school life. A board can ask searching questions in a spirit of solidarity, then provide the leadership, resources and partnerships needed to act on the answers.
Listen to Sarah Harcombe-Barreto
Listen to Sarah Harcombe-Barreto’s reflection on Dilexi te — Love for the Poor, as part of our Governing with Hope series.
Take a moment to listen before exploring the teaching, governor questions and meeting prayer below.
What does Dilexi te ask us to see?
Pope Leo XIV’s apostolic exhortation Dilexi te (“I have loved you”, 4 October 2025) connects love for Christ with love for people experiencing poverty. It speaks directly about the Church’s mission in education.
Education is a matter of justice
In §§68–72, Pope Leo traces the Church’s history of educating children whose opportunities were restricted by poverty. He writes: “the education of the poor is not a favor but a duty” (§72). This asks a board to look beyond whether a place is available to whether the child can genuinely take part and thrive.
Poverty has more than one face
The exhortation describes material, social, cultural and other forms of poverty (§§9–13). A school should attend to the circumstances of its own families without making assumptions about what disadvantage looks like or treating a label as the whole story of a child.
Listen with families, not simply about them
Pope Leo asks the Church to recognise the experience and insight of people who live with poverty (§§100–104). For governors, this means checking whose voices inform the school’s decisions and whether seeking help is dignified and straightforward.
Faith should be visible in decisions
The exhortation describes Catholic schools as places of inclusion, integral formation and human development (§72). Its challenge reaches budgets, policies, curriculum and partnerships as well as acts of personal kindness.
Questions for challenge and support
Choose two or three questions that fit the board’s current agenda. Ask leaders what the evidence shows, listen to their context, agree practical support and return to the impact at a future meeting.
1. Who encounters a barrier?
Challenge
Which pupils participate less fully in learning, worship, trips, clubs or leadership opportunities? What do we know from attendance, achievement, behaviour, participation and pupil and family voice—and whose experience is missing?
Support
Help leaders gather proportionate evidence, including confidential feedback, and make inclusion a clear priority in the improvement plan.
2. What does a school day cost?
Challenge
Do uniform, meals, transport, devices, trips, contributions or special events create hidden pressure? Can a child take part without a family having to disclose hardship publicly?
Support
Review charging and subsidy decisions, protect a discreet route to help and budget for access to the full life of the school.
3. Are expectations joined to help?
Challenge
When attendance or attainment is low, do we understand the barriers before deciding the response? Do we see whether support changes a pupil’s experience and progress over time?
Support
Ensure leaders have capacity for early conversation, tailored teaching and partnership with relevant services; review what works rather than only what was offered.
4. Is access genuinely inclusive?
Challenge
Where poverty overlaps with SEND, disability, language needs, care experience or housing instability, are plans coordinated around the child? Are we careful not to equate SEND with poverty?
Support
Resource adaptive teaching and pastoral care, and bring the right staff and partners together while respecting confidentiality.
5. How do families experience us?
Challenge
Can parents raise a difficulty without shame? Are communication, meeting times and access to support workable for families with different circumstances? What have families told us about trust?
Support
Back welcoming, accessible communication and ways to hear families directly; act on feedback and report what changed.
6. Where do our resources go?
Challenge
Does the budget reflect our mission and the actual needs of children? What impact has spending intended to reduce disadvantage had on participation, learning and belonging?
Support
Set realistic priorities, give leaders room to adjust provision, and use governor oversight to sustain successful work beyond a single grant or initiative.
A short board meeting reflection
This formation resource supports strategic discussion. Governors should apply the statutory and diocesan guidance relevant to their school and maintain confidentiality when discussing individual circumstances.
A prayer to see, listen and act
Loving God,
you know every child by name and hold every family in your care.
Open our eyes to barriers we have not noticed.
Free us from easy assumptions.
Give us the patience to listen to those whose voices are seldom heard
and the courage to act on what we learn.
Bless our school leaders, staff and partners
as they teach, welcome and accompany children each day.
Help us challenge with honesty, support with generosity
and use the resources entrusted to us with justice.
May our decisions make room for every child
to learn, belong and flourish.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Continue your formation
Love for the Poor is the second reflection in Governing with Hope, EducareM’s six-theme series connecting Church teaching with the mission, challenge and support of Catholic school governance.
View all six themes →Interested in finding out more or deepening your formation? Explore the programme diary. For training shaped around your own governing board, see bespoke support and the other programme pages in the EducareM site menu.
View the programme diary → Explore bespoke support →Source: Pope Leo XIV, Dilexi te (4 October 2025) , especially §§9–13, 68–72 and 100–104. The governor questions are EducareM’s application of the exhortation to school governance.
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