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Providing support for spiritual accompaniment

EducareM support for Catholic leaders

Spiritual accompaniment

A prayerful, attentive space for Catholic headteachers to pause, reflect and notice how God is at work in their life and leadership.

Spiritual accompaniment: a prayerful conversation and a companion on the journey

Walk • Listen • Discern

What is a spiritual guide?

A trained spiritual guide walks alongside another person as their spiritual life and relationship with God develop.

The guide offers attentive listening, encouragement and companionship, helping a person notice and explore how God may be working in and through the ordinary experiences, decisions and challenges of life.

A reflective conversation

What to expect

The focus is not on quick answers. It is on making room to listen more deeply and discern faithfully.

1

Pause

Step away from the pace and demands of school leadership.

2

Notice

Attend to the movements, questions and invitations present in your experience.

3

Discern

Reflect prayerfully on where God may be leading and what matters most.

4

Respond

Return to life and leadership with greater freedom, clarity and attentiveness.

For Catholic headteachers

Space for the person within the role

Headship is demanding. The responsibility of leading a Catholic school and its faith community can bring an additional depth of vocation, challenge and discernment.

A spiritual guide provides space to reflect on key moments, attend to your relationship with God and explore your ministry as a leader serving the Church’s mission in education.

You do not need to arrive with a particular problem. Accompaniment begins with your experience, your prayer and whatever feels important to bring.

A place to bring

  • The joys and pressures of leading a Catholic school
  • Questions about vocation, faith and purpose
  • Important choices or moments of transition
  • Experiences of consolation, challenge or uncertainty
  • A desire to deepen prayer and attentiveness to God

A distinct kind of support

What accompaniment is — and is not

Clear expectations allow the relationship to remain prayerful, respectful and focused on spiritual growth.

Spiritual accompaniment is

  • A space to speak, listen and reflect prayerfully
  • Companionship as you notice God’s presence and action
  • Support for discernment, faith and spiritual growth
  • Centred on your lived experience and relationship with God

It is not

  • Mentoring or professional coaching
  • Educational consultancy or performance management
  • A place where someone else supplies the answers
  • A substitute for specialist pastoral, medical or therapeutic support

Headteachers’ reflections

What others have said

“I have told myself for the last six years of Headship that I have not got time to do this. I’m too busy. It is too much of an indulgence… I was wrong!”

“The Spiritual Guide is an excellent idea. One I have considered before but never managed to arrange. Now I can.”

“I already have one and I think it is marvellous to offer it to others.”

Taking the next step

Could spiritual accompaniment support you?

If you are a Catholic headteacher and would like to explore the possibility of meeting with a spiritual guide, contact Maggie Shinkwin. An initial enquiry simply opens a conversation about the support available.

Contact Maggie Shinkwin

For an initial conversation about accessing spiritual accompaniment.

Email Maggie

You do not have to carry leadership alone.

Make time to pause, listen and discern with a companion on the road.

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